I’ve done some thinking about relationships I’ve had in the past that have failed. Friends, boyfriends, family relationships – each one is different and if we want them to last, we need to be responsible for our part in them.

When relationships falter, it’s easy to point fingers and place blame on the other person. However, true growth comes from looking inward and acknowledging our own role in the dynamic. Whether it’s not communicating effectively, holding unrealistic expectations, or failing to show up consistently, our actions and reactions play a significant part in the health of our connections. Taking responsibility doesn’t mean accepting blame for everything that went wrong, but rather, it’s about recognizing where we can improve and how we can bring more honesty, empathy, and understanding to our relationships.

By reflecting on our past relationships and the lessons they’ve taught us, we have the opportunity to approach future connections with more awareness and intention. It’s about learning from our mistakes and being willing to make changes that foster stronger, more fulfilling relationships. When we take ownership of our part, we open the door to healthier, more resilient bonds that can withstand the challenges that inevitably come our way. How have you grown from past relationships, and what changes have you made to cultivate better ones?